Caretakers and Helping Professionals
There is a lot of pain in the world. And we are wired at a basic, biological level to avoid and escape pain. But if we always let that reaction control us, we end up living from a fear state. The other aspect of life as a human is all the love that is also present in...
Caretakers and Helping Professionals
Summertime means vacations for many women. Do you tend to be ‘the planner’ in your household? That role has been one I fall easily into as organizing and getting details together to make things happen is a strength of mind. Our strengths also have their ‘weak’...
Caretakers and Helping Professionals
This week I took a pause when I saw a post by neuroscientist, Dr. Lisa Masconi, showing that across all countries studied, women continue to have much less ‘leisure’ time than men. She labelled this as ‘Me Time.’ I know from working with women for over two decades in...
Caretakers and Helping Professionals
Wisdom comes with learning from experiences over time. Wisdom helps to change and shape our beliefs…if we let it. Fear and protection also shape our beliefs and can be louder, more forceful than wisdom, which is why we tend to make mistakes more than once. When it...
Caretakers and Helping Professionals
A big red flag goes up when I teach someone a tool or technique and they immediately say, “My _____ would really like this. I can’t wait to show them.” This is part of the Caregiver Mindset. You’re probably thinking, “Twyla, caregiving is a positive thing. What’s...
Caretakers and Helping Professionals
I’ve been hearing a lot lately, “but isn’t that being selfish?” Typically this comes from a woman. Women, historically, are taught to be a “good girl,” “good wife,” “good mother.” This typically means that everyone comes before you. And if a woman says, “No,” then...